Most of us can forgive and forget, but we just don't want the other person to forget that we forgave.
10/17/10 We have all heard of forgive and forget, but “forgetting” is the hardest part of “forgiving”. Ask yourself two questions: Is there someone or something I have refused to forget, which keeps me from being happy? AND… Am I a victim of self-pity, living emotionally paralyzed in anguish and despair? It is never too late to start doing what is right. Forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves. Better late than never!!